Bondage Lingerie: A Complete Buyer’s Guide
Anyone looking to spice up their love life has likely looked into lingerie. Let’s be honest: Anyone looking to feel sexy in their own skin with a little boost has also likely looked into lingerie!
There are numerous types of seductive lingerie and accessories to fill your heart with that much-needed hit of adrenaline.
In scouring the internet for that perfect lingerie set, you may have also seen or heard about bondage and been a little bit curious! Maybe you’re already into bondage, so you’re on the hunt for lingerie pieces to suit your needs.
We made it our goal here at MOEFLAVOR to create a buyer’s guide to all things bondage lingerie. You’ll soon be a BDSM lingerie expert … Let’s get into it, subs and doms.
What Is Bondage?
Before we get started browsing oh-so-sexy bondage lingerie, let's talk a bit about what bondage actually is. Bondage is the act of tying up (or being tied up by) a partner with ropes, metal, latex, or another restraint.
Bondage refers to being tied up or restrained in a manner that grants sexual or stimulative satisfaction, whether or not actual sexual acts take place.
Sometimes bondage is referred to as BDSM and can be performed with the intention of submission or resistance to the bindings. And what does BDSM stand for, you ask? This intriguing acronym stands for Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Sadism/Submission, and Masochism.
The first known usage of the term “BDSM” was discovered only a few decades ago, in 1991. Since then, BDSM and bondage have become relatively common phrases, especially in the sex-positive sphere. As a sex-positive brand ourselves, we are so here for it!
Bondage play can be as unique and varied as each individual person and the relationship that you’re in. Bondage can feature torture-type aspects, be artistic, or be used as a form of foreplay and intercourse.
As with any sexual encounter that involves another person, bondage is a mutual act. Any exploration of it should be preceded by research, frank conversations on what is and isn’t acceptable, a safe word, and permission with every act.
When these prior needs are met, bondage and BDSM can open an entire world of possibilities that is amplified by the use of lingerie. Bondage lingerie is where the fun begins!
What Should I Look for When Shopping for Bondage Lingerie?
When it comes to lingerie in the context of bondage, there are a few questions you should answer:
- Are you looking for lingerie that you can wear and look great with your constraints for photo ops? Think about how certain lingerie styles can play up the bondage aspect of your playtime.
- Is it purely aesthetic and not necessarily sexual? Going this route can allow for a bit more flexibility (no pun intended) as far as ensembles go.
- Do you approach your BDSM play as a dom, a sub, or a switch? Yes, clothing can, in fact, enhance each of these relationships.
Let's take a look at a few different bondage lingerie styles and outfits and chat about why they fit the bill. After all, you’re going to want options depending on what you’re feelin’ on any specific night in the bedroom!
What Are Submissive Bondage Lingerie Styles?
Maybe you’re looking to wear lingerie that allows you to be tied up but takes the events a little further into territories of sexual exploration. You can sit back and helplessly watch the transpiring and know that your partner is having the time of their life with your outfit.
Present Bow Lingerie
If you want to offer yourself up as a gift to your more dominant partner, consider our Present Bow Lingerie. It provides a bra top with bows over each breast … talk about a gift that keeps on giving!
A sexy waist belt with a metal heart center and chain garters help lead the eyes up and down your body. Your partner won’t be able to get enough, and neither will you.
The underwear included in the Present Bow Set is in a thong style, with the sides leading up higher on the hips to accentuate the length of your legs.
The Present Bow Lingerie Set can be a great option for bondage photo shoots or even to throw on when you’re feeling sexy on your own to take a few selfies!
Sweet Talk Heart Ruffle Lingerie
For a more playful approach, we love the Sweet Talk Heart Ruffle Lingerie. What do we love about it? It’s so exhilarating that the numerous horizontal straps on the back already look a bit bondage in nature!
With neck-straps to put around for aesthetics, this accessory-packed outfit gives you heart-shaped breast covers, bows for your neck, frills for your shoulders, and a waist piece. It’s plenty of fun to put on and take off with lots of straps and lines to play off of with your bondage straps.
Mesh Manga Noises Bodysuit
If you’re looking for a simpler piece, then why not give our one-piece Mesh Manga Noises Bodysuit a whirl? The sheer top means you can either partially reveal your body through the mesh or wear simple sexy underwear underneath as well.
Versatility helps take this bodysuit to the next level by giving options on how you can wear it! With a thong-type bottom and high neck with sleeves, this Mesh Manga Bodysuit gives and takes skin in a tasteful and teasing way.
The simplicity of a one-piece suit lends itself to more creative and full-body bondage while still being super seductive and picture worthy.
MOEFLAVOR wants to dispel the myth that bodysuits can’t be just as sexy or even sexier than skimpier pieces! It all comes down to confidence, creativity, and a great baseline bodysuit to start off with … and let the excitement take hold.
What Is Sexy Dominant BDSM Bondage Lingerie?
What to do if you want to be the one doing the tying up? You need to command a presence of stern authority but look (and feel) great while you do. Let’s take a look at some powerful lingerie options for your next bondage date.
You could be wanting to show off your power to your partner, or the mirror. These lingerie choices allow you to do just that (not like you needed permission).
Swimsuit Danger Gamer Bunny Bikini
For a more interactive experience, nothing beats classic bikini-style lingerie like our Swimsuit Danger Gamer Bunny Bikini. The bikini top and bottoms both have adjustable tie straps to fit your body perfectly and allow for creative reveals.
Cyber Bunny Set
Nothing screams authority like black vinyl in our Cyber Bunny Set. The bunny ears are a fun play on the popular playboy approach, but the black vinyl implies that you’re in control. The upper body shoulder covers have a military feel and would go well with a whip or stick.
The fun see-through skirt allows glimpses of sensuality, making for a fun bondage experience for all involved.
Hell Rider Succubus Lingerie
While we’re talking about feeling and being powerful, what about channeling an otherworldly figure?! Say hello to our Hell Rider Succubus Lingerie, available in black, red, or pink.
Having this set in different colors leads to fun possibilities: You can go classic with red, have a bit of a goth vibe with the black set, or do a distinct type of Valentine’s Day this year in the pink set.
The Hell Rider Succubus Lingerie comes with a strappy vinyl top, totally sexy underwear with a domineering zipper, and a waist piece with a garter. We can’t forget to mention that the underwear has an attached devil tail … that just so happens to be fastened with a metal chain.
Chains and bondage go hand in hand, just like lace and leather.
What Is the Perfect Lingerie for Switches?
The beauty of being a switch is being able to both dominate your partner, and submit to them! Even if you aren’t practicing bondage with another person in the bedroom, these possibilities can be worn to purely feel attractive, playful, and sexual.
Tactical Maid
An absolute classic, our Tactical Maid takes the fun anime maid and adds flair. We’ve introduced some tactical pouches for decoration or even useful storage: you never know when you may need supplies!
With tons of belts, a skirt, and an apron, you’re ready to tie up your partner with authoritative sex appeal. Take it to the other side, too, by playing up the submissive angle of being a sexy maid.
Neka Swimsuit
Don’t let the simplicity of our Neko Swimsuit fool you. It’s a bit more of a blank canvas, but a seriously alluring one at that. Take this swimsuit lingerie in any direction with a few accessories, like our recommendations below.
What Are the Best Bondage Lingerie Accessories?
What outfit is complete without an accessory here or there?
Many of these lingerie styles have garters that would look incredible with Dex Sheer Stockings or Nya Net Thigh Highs. Feeling like a Top in the bedroom tonight? You’ve got to go with our Vinyl Cyber Bunny Thigh High Stockings.
Before things get too intense during bondage play, you can even don our Devil Horn Headband or Black Latex Nurse Face Mask.
Bondage Lingerie: There’s Something for Everyone
If you’re a dom, sub, or switch, you can find bondage lingerie that fits your approach here at MOEFLAVOR. Perhaps you aren’t actively in the BDSM or bondage community – that doesn’t mean you still can’t enjoy feeling confident and elusive in bondage lingerie!
With this complete buyer’s guide that has everything you need to know about bondage lingerie, you’re ready to show off your take on bondage and BDSM fashion.
Sources:
What IS Bondage? | Psychology Dictionary